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Open Flourish | General Discussion / Re: Practice and Parenting
« on: July 06, 2015, 01:30:01 PM »
That is a lot. Joi is right and oh so wise to point out that it shouldn't be something you stress about. It should be something that is freeing, not strapping you down. However, I completely understand the frustration of having a goal in mind that you feel you just can't get to because it feels like you have too much on your plate. 10 months old is a really hard age, because they don't want to entertain themselves, and it's not like you can practice with the baby on your lap (believe me, I've tried). A small thing that has helped me is leaving your practice supplies out somewhere accessible (to you, but not the baby, of course) so if you have a few quiet moments you can just sit down and do a few lines. Mine is next to the dinner table, so when the kiddos are still eating, and if my husband is feeding the little one, I can scoot over to my desk and practice, or sometimes just grab a pad of paper and sit at the table. Then no one feels like I'm abandoning them for calligraphy, but I'm not sitting there silently willing my kids to eat faster so I can get on to practicing . Or if your husband has the baby for a bit, your don't have to spend time setting up, you can just sit down and go for it.
My best times of practice are when the kids are sleeping, but when I just don't have time, that's a small thing that helps me get a little more practice daily.
Edited to add: Of course, keeping in mind Joi's and Schin's advice about making your practice mindful and intentional, even when you only have a few minutes to practice.
My best times of practice are when the kids are sleeping, but when I just don't have time, that's a small thing that helps me get a little more practice daily.
Edited to add: Of course, keeping in mind Joi's and Schin's advice about making your practice mindful and intentional, even when you only have a few minutes to practice.