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Open Flourish | General Discussion / Coping with perfectionism
« on: October 09, 2023, 09:49:26 AM »
… I'll confess, this is a slightly tricky topic for me. I’m a recovering perfectionist (although, some days, I wonder if I’m still closer to the latter than the former). I’d also love to become a professional calligrapher some day. Perhaps my greatest worry about making that leap, though, is knowing when and how far to reign in my perfectionistic tendencies.
As much as I'd like to pretend otherwise, the precision calligraphy requires is one of the things I enjoy most about it. (Well, maybe not on those days when it’s all going wrong!) But I'm mindful that professional calligraphy involves more than just writing (hopefully ) beautiful letters, but also things like handing in work on time and working within a budget.
And so I wondered – do you struggle with perfectionism, and if so, how do you cope with it? What do you consider realistic to aim for in your work? If you were, say, three-quarters through a long piece of prose when – horror! – you included a bad space or a shaky stroke, would you begin again? What would be your threshold for rewriting something shorter like a place card?
More than anything, I think I’m just hoping to understand what’s realistic and, maybe more importantly, what’s sensible.
As much as I'd like to pretend otherwise, the precision calligraphy requires is one of the things I enjoy most about it. (Well, maybe not on those days when it’s all going wrong!) But I'm mindful that professional calligraphy involves more than just writing (hopefully ) beautiful letters, but also things like handing in work on time and working within a budget.
And so I wondered – do you struggle with perfectionism, and if so, how do you cope with it? What do you consider realistic to aim for in your work? If you were, say, three-quarters through a long piece of prose when – horror! – you included a bad space or a shaky stroke, would you begin again? What would be your threshold for rewriting something shorter like a place card?
More than anything, I think I’m just hoping to understand what’s realistic and, maybe more importantly, what’s sensible.