Hi Allan, so nice to see your process, thanks! Your work is beautiful!
The second technique you showed with the p is very similar to the way that Martina Flor (lettering artist in Berlin, I took a class with her last year) showed us. She also recommended (what I also saw in your first example) to use as few points as possible (what I knew from logo design) and
to keep all the anchor paths strictly horizontal or vertical (except for end points of course). To find the right spot for these points it helps to figure out which is the most outward point of a curve. I hope I explained that so it is to understand, my "design english" is not so great;)!!. I found this tip very helpful, because it makes corrections so much easier to control (to change only one side of a curve when pulling on a point).
Each one of us did one capital, one day with calligraphy (with Giuseppe Salerno), then pencil lettering variations (with Martina), the next days we went on with refining the sketches, some started digitizing. I did the actual final design in Illustrator later at home, I needed many hours for that!
My process with the H can you see here
here, if anyone has questions, you're welcome! You can see that I changed the curves a lot, compared to my original layout / template, because I realised on screen that they were akward, and I didn't have the skill to write them better before in the sketch. Also the thicks and thins, I would do a lot different now because I know much more about writing with pointed pen!
Erica, I hope you are not too frustrated … as Alan said, also in my experience, working with Illustrator can be as much tedious and slow as "the real thing" with ink and paper! And of course also a lot of practice is needed to get it right. That looks good what you did there!